Wow – sensational sex with NLP – now that’s a big claim isn’t it? Well I don’t think so. When I work with couples who are experiencing difficulty in their relationships, especially with their sexual incompatibility I use a variety of NLP techniques and hypnosis to help them light their fires, so to speak.
There are three main areas that I focus on to help couples reignite their sex lives. The first is the individual’s self confidence and belief systems about sex. I work with each person to teach them how to let go of negative emotions that are standing in their way and show them how to install empowering beliefs about their sex drive and abilities.
Next I focus on each person’s sex strategy. I bet you didn’t know that everyone has a sex strategy. A strategy in NLP terms is an order and sequence of internal representations that leads to a particular outcome. Basically it is what we do in our mind that drives us to get to a specific outcome.
When we first meet that special someone, we do everything we can to fire off their sex strategy and when we get it right – things are rocking! Over time and as we become more comfortable together, we begin firing off our own sex strategy instead of our partners which results in a mis-match of sexual finesse.
So what can you do about it? Well I work with each person to discover what their sex strategy is, (the steps they do in their mind), then teach it to the other person. We can alter strategies and install more effective ones if needed and both parties are in agreement.
The third is mis-communication. Now that is not new to you I’m sure. How many of you say, ‘my partner doesn’t really ‘hear’ what I’m saying’ or ‘I don’t feel that my partner gets me’. We all communicate differently. Some people are more visual, some are more auditory or kinaesthetic (feelings) and some prefer logic and facts and figures. Once we realise how each person communicates inside their own head, we can use their language when getting our point across, both in and out of the bedroom.
Once you have used the techniques that we teach; your sexual relationship will never be the same again.
So the question is, are you ready to bring sensational sex back into your relationship?
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Bye for now….
Deborah
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