Posts Tagged ‘Coaching’

Give us 7 days & we’ll Give You the Secret to making 2010 Your Year!

Wednesday, January 6th, 2010

Have you ever felt that you have more to give?

Are you passionate about helping others?

Feel like you know the principles of emotional, and spiritual growth but lack some of the tools?

Change pushes us outside our comfort zone, so why do we do it? It’s all about growth and development. But we can’t grow if we don’t learn, we can’t learn if we don’t experience and we can’t experience if we don’t move forward.

Are you one of those people who push the boundaries, enjoy challenges, learn, grow and develop? It seems to some like a hard path to follow but when you look back on your life, recalling all of the challenges and obstacles you have overcome it gives you an overwhelming sense of empowerment.

“I know that I am in control of my own life again.  You have truly given me a gift”  Angela Taylor, Brisbane, Australia

There is now a ‘science of change’. Yes that’s right, personal change has been studied in detail for the last 35 years.  That science is called Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP).  NLP is the toolbox that allows you to create change in any area of your life permanently and rapidly. NLP can be applied in your daily life to create positive change in your health, your relationships as well as your business.  Not only that, we use it to assist others to work through their most difficult challenges with ease.

  • Get back your motivation & direction
  • Create positive change in your life permanently & rapidly
  • Overcome anger, anxiety, fears & phobias
  • Increase your income
  • Improve your heal & fitness & switch on healing
  • Get rid of doubts & limiting beliefs
  • Build rapport, mediate & negotiation with anyone

If you can relate to any of this, you may have what it takes to be a successful practitioner of NLP, coaching others to let go of their ‘emotional baggage’ and breakthrough the barriers that have held them back for so long.  As a practitioner of Neuro-linguistic Programming you will be able to achieve all this and more.  Attend our fun, exciting, practical NLP course on the Gold Coast.  After working through your pre-study kit and attending a seven day course you can be certified as an NLP Practitioner, NLP Coach, Time Line TherapyTM Practitioner and Hypnotherpist. Join our next course February 15 – 21, 2010 on the Gold Coast, Queensland, Australia and learn how to change the fast way.

Limited numbers so book early to receive the earlybird discount – only 5 early bird tickets left.

Visit www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au or ring me now on 1300 388875. 

Bye for now….

Deborah

The Secret to Feeling Fabulous Everyday

Tuesday, January 5th, 2010

Is it really possible to feel fabulous everyday?  Absolutely! 

So what is it I do exactly?

Well big picture – imagine you wanted a new bathroom, what’s the first thing you would do?  That’s right – you would take out all the old fittings.  Well that is what I do – I help you to resolve all those horrible past issues and emotions quickly and easily, so you can reach your true potential and live a fabulous life.

I regularly see people who suffer from anxiety, depression, post traumatic stress disorder, obsessive compulsive disorders, anger management, stress management, phobias and children with ADHD.  In fact there are so many different issues that these techniques can help.

After you explain your problem either in person or over the phone, I ask a series of specific questions to discover the core underlying issues.  I then teach you the techniques to release those issues. We then test and make sure the problem’s gone.

There is now a lot of research in the area of psycho-neuro-immunology, which demonstrates that holding on to negative emotions adversely affects your health.  When people realise this they want to let go old emotional baggage now and start living again.

This is a very fast process, for example, a phobia normally takes less than an hour.  Anger management issues can take between one to two hours.  A personal break-through session covering all aspects of life can take 8 to 10 hours.  So it is really quick and the changes are amazing.

I’m a Master Practitioner and Trainer of Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), Time Line Therapy™, Coaching and Hypnosis.  I teach people how to let go of their old emotional baggage and remove obstacles so they feel good about themselves and achieve exactly what they want.

Ring me now on 1300 388875 or visit www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au  for more information.

Bye for now….

Deborah

Speed Networking with NLP!

Tuesday, December 1st, 2009

A number of my colleagues and friends have been going to ‘speed networking as a way of quickly ‘sifting’ through potential customers to see if they can find the ‘one’ that might make the difference to their business life.

As an NLP Practitioner and Trainer, they asked me for some advice to make their time at speed networking more efficient.

This is what I had to offer on the subject:

You need to build rapport as quickly as possible.   Sounds simple?  Then why aren’t people doing it as quickly as a person trained in NLP can?

So what is rapport?

People do business with people they like….

Rapport is a process of responsiveness.  It means that if you are ‘like’ another person, they are more likely to ‘like’ you.  Have you ever been to a party and within minutes of meeting someone they say, ‘wow I feel like I’ve known you forever!’ Well that is an indication you are in rapport.

How do you get it?

You need to covertly match and mirror the person’s body language, breathing, tone of voice and if possible using similar words to them.  Do they speak quickly or more slowly?  If you match what they are doing, they will see something in you that is like them. 

And I mean covertly!

I often hear people referring to rapport in NLP as ‘mimicking’ and it is certainly not that.  If you mimic someone you will lose rapport and end up achieving nothing out of your speed networking experience.

Learning how to build rapport quickly can help you in all kinds of situations from securing business deals to getting your proposal accepted easily and effortlessly.  How much business are you missing out on?  Find out how one of our graduates increased turnover by 300-400%

Find out how you can learn more.  Visit www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au  or www.mindpro.com.au

Bye for now,

Deborah Harper

NLP Couples Therapy

Monday, September 7th, 2009

When people ask me about using NLP for couples therapy, the first thing I ask is, ‘is this relationship worth saving?’.  If it is then there are a number of NLP and Time Line™ Therapy techniques that can help couples reconnect their love strategy, relationship values and begin communicating in a resourceful and loving way.

What if the answer however is ‘No, this relationship isn’t worth saving!” ?

You know being honest with yourself about what you want out of a relationship is the first step towards having the relationship you really want and need.  All too often I hear about people who stay in unresourceful or unhappy relationships because the perceived pain of leaving is too much to contemplate.   The question I’d like to ask is this….  When did it become okay for us to remain in a relationship where our needs are not being met?  How often do you hear of older couples wishing they had the guts to leave the relationship and spend their remaining years in a passionate and exciting relationship?

Regardless of whether you stay and make it work or leave and make it work, NLP techniques can help you make the transition easier emotionally.

The first thing you need to do is be clear about what it is you want in a relationship.  You probably already know what you don’t want – so stop focusing on that and focus on what you do want.  Once you have that list of wants and needs – look at your current relationship and decide together if the relationship is worth saving and if each partner can meet the other’s needs. If the answer is no, then you can support each other in the decision and move towards what you do want in an amicable way.

For more information on NLP Couples Therapy, contact Deborah on 1300 388875 or go to www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au

Bye for now…

Deborah

NLP Buying Strategies

Thursday, September 3rd, 2009

Do you or someone you know spend money on things you or they don’t need?  Are you a person that buys and buys and can’t help yourself?  If yes, you wouldn’t be alone there and NLP Strategy techniques could be just what you need.

Some people have a buying strategy that results in them buying stuff they don’t need – the good news is that you can do something about it.

Did you know that we have strategies for everything we do in life?  A strategy is simply the steps we use inside our minds in the process of doing something.

We have strategies for sex, love, buying, selling, decision making, motivation, spelling, learning and many more.

Using NLP Strategy techniques, imagine how powerful it would be if you could work out someone’s strategy for buying for example and then use this strategy when you are selling them a product.  Of course I only advocate selling something to someone that they actually need!

How about being able to work out your boss’s decision making strategy and then use this anytime you want to get a decision that goes in your favour?  Would that be of value?

What about being able to teach students how to use an NLP Spelling Strategy so they can recall words and spell them easily and effortlessly.  Wouldn’t it be great to teach them how to recall maths formulas and science information?

I teach couples NLP Strategies and how to utilise each other’s love strategy and sex strategy so they can reconnect and put some ‘zing’ back into their relationship.

How are your strategies?

We teach this and many more NLP techniques in our 7 Day NLP Practitioner Course.  At the end of the 7 days, you walk away with four certifications:

  1. NLP Practitioner
  2. NLP Coach
  3. Time Line® Practitioner
  4. Hypnotherapist

For more information on seminars, courses and coaching, call 1300 388875, or visit www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au

Bye for now

Deborah

NLP Anchoring – Control your emotional state!

Wednesday, September 2nd, 2009

Imagine if you could be in charge of your emotional state each and every day.  Would it be useful to be able to call on command an internal emotional state that is powerful, motivating, confident, empowering at anytime you needed it? 

Working with clients, students and graduates of our courses, I get asked a lot about the concept of NLP Anchoring and does it really work.

The answer is a definite ‘yes’

What is an anchor?  Well your alarm clock is an anchor – sometimes you wake up seconds before it goes off – yes you know you do that!  Songs are anchors – you know that certain song that reminds you of a wonderful event in your past, maybe at high school or the first kiss etc.  Hearing the words, ‘Well done’ – can be an anchor – it simply evokes an emotional state, either happy or not.  What about the words, ‘I love you’ – what kind of emotions do they evoke inside?

Using the concept of ‘anchoring’ we teach our students and clients how to be in control of their emotional state at anytime.  So if you are going for a job interview or presenting to the Management team, you can easily control your internal emotional state so you walk in there totally confident, totally motivated and totally in control.

Anchoring is easy to learn and easy to implement. We teach this and many more NLP techniques in our 7 Day NLP Practitioner Course.  At the end of the 7 days, you walk away with four certifications:

  1. NLP Practitioner
  2. NLP Coach
  3. Time Line Therapy® Practitioner
  4. Hypnotherapist

The great news is there is still spots available on the September 10-16 course at the Gold Coast.  For more information on seminars, courses and coaching, call 1300 388875, or visit www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au

Bye for now

Deborah

Kids Anxiety? NLP Can Help

Tuesday, September 1st, 2009

Kids can get anxious about many many things.  Exam anxiety, school anxiety, anxiety about friends and family to name a few.  And I don’t just mean young kids.  Young adults also get anxious, especially when it comes to fitting in socially and also around exam time.

When a child or adult feels anxiety or is anxious about something it is simply a warning from their unconscious mind that they are focusing on what they don’t want or something going wrong.  Of course, they don’t understand that but you will as an adult.  Try this out for a moment.  Try and be anxious about something in your past that went really well.  You can’t!

Using the NLP Anxiety model and a variety of NLP techniques, I show kids how to start focusing on what they do want and how to let go of anxiety and fear.  The actual process for anxiety only takes a few minutes to teach them.  The sessions are fun and quick as kids are usually very quick at picking up the techniques.  Mum and Dad also get a quick lesson so that they can keep the anxiety technique going once they leave my office.

Watching a child let go of anxiety is a wonderful experience for everyone concerned, including me. 

I run these sessions either in person, over the phone or they can be done via Skype – the kids love that by the way!

For more information on seminars, courses and coaching, call 1300 388875, or visit www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au

Bye for now

Deborah

Spelling Improvement with NLP

Monday, August 31st, 2009

I’m not sure if you are aware of this but did you know that we have a strategy for the way we spell words?  A spelling strategy is simply a process we do in our head, unconsciously in the process of trying to spell a word.

Adults and kids can improve their spelling ability dramatically in as little as 30 minutes using NLP Spelling Strategies.  It sounds too good to be true so we guarantee our results.  Many young people have adopted an unresourceful strategy for spelling and if not picked up early and corrected, it can lead to major spelling issues later in life.

I use these techniques with my own five year old daughter and she can already spell words well beyond expectations of her year level.  That in itself is worth more than the money I paid to become an NLP Trainer and Coach!

Can you imagine the confidence your child will have when they improve their spelling words each week?  I know as a Mum, I love to see and hear my children improving and enjoying what they are learning.

This NLP technique also helps children who suffer from learning difficulties.  It is simply about showing them how to adopt a new and easy strategy for learning.  The results are amazing and the children begin to feel empowered again at school.

For more information on seminars, courses and coaching, call 1300 388875, or visit www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au

Bye for now

Deborah

NLP Business Coaching

Thursday, August 27th, 2009

Want to make more money in your current business?  Who wouldn’t?

We all know that business is about profit and so that means you need to increase turnover and also reduce costs.  How’s that possible in today’s financial crisis?  Well you see, from an NLP perspective, we believe that in a downward economy there are people that make money and people that don’t – so what makes the difference? 

 Well it is all in how you think and how you use your mind to program what you want and then you put into action the strategies that will get you to your outcome.

That’s where we come in.  Our business is training and coaching people. We teach people to communicate more effectively with prospects, customers and staff.  We show you how to keep the staff you have and how to increase goodwill and sales.  Some of our graduates increase turnover by a massive 300% after our courses, just by applying some simple techniques.

Using NLP in your business will enhance your performance in every facet of your work. When we were in Las Vegas last month presenting, we talked to colleagues of ours who run similar NLP trainings in Canada, Mike and Kim Redman. They did a survey of their NLP graduates to find out what increase in income they experienced following their NLP Practitioner course.  Some of them weren’t even using their new skills yet. Guess what the average increase was…..

 The average was 28% !!!!.  Just STOP now and follow these 2 steps:

 Step1:  Calculate a 28% increase in income for the next year.

Step 2: Is that amount more than $4595 (Yes or No)?

Our Early Bird rate for our NLP Practitioner 7 day Training is only $3695.00.  Our last one for 2009 starts 10th September 2009 at the Gold Coast, Queensland, Australia. 

For more information on seminars, courses and coaching, call 1300 388875, or visit www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au

 Bye for now

Deborah

NLP Circle of Empowerment

Tuesday, April 14th, 2009

An important part of NLP is teaching people how they can be in control of their emotional state at any time which gives them total control over their personal empowerment.
How valuable would it be to be able to put yourself into a positive and intensely resourceful state at any time? Imagine if you could quickly change your state even if you wake up feeling ‘grumpy’ or ‘despondent’.

The following ‘Circle of Empowerment’ is adapted from ‘The Circle of Excellence’ originally developed by Dr. John Grinder co-creator of NLP. Circle of Empowerment is a basic process which can be used to elicit, create and stabilise desired emotional states in you.

Circle of Empowerment Technique
1. Imagine a circle
2. Remember specific experiences where you felt either powerful, creative, confident, excited or energised
3. Using one state at a time, see what you saw, hear what you heard and feel the feelings of being totally [whichever state you chose e.g. powerful, creative]
4. When the feelings become strong, step into the circle, wait 5 seconds (maintaining the emotion).
5. Step back out of the circle
6. Repeat steps 3 and 4, adding other different resourceful states. [The more powerful the states the better!]
7. When you step back into the space you will be able re-access the positive feelings and emotional states you placed in there.
8. You can take this imaginary circle and use it whenever you need to, or you can set up circles in specific places in your home or business (no one would even know you have done it!)
When you want to access these state, just imagine the circle on the floor in front of you and step in. You will feel the states build within 5-10 seconds.
Imagine where you could utilise the circle of empowerment? Before you give that important speech at work or maybe before you walk into a social situation? Teachers can even use this as a fun way of students gaining control of their emotions.

The above technique is a very small part of NLP ‘Anchoring’, that teach you about emotional state control and is included in the NLP Practitioner 7 day certification training. Check out www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au

Bye for now
Deb

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