Posts Tagged ‘confidence’

Creating More Happiness ….

Thursday, June 2nd, 2011

Creating more happiness in your life is easier than you think. Rather than me writing all about it, Jonathan and I recorded a video that includes a simple technique that you can do right away to create more happiness in your life.

If you want to find out more about this and many other amazing facts about your mind that can help you live a more fulfilling and happy life then why not join us on 20-26 June 2011 at our NLP Practitioner Training. Then you can help others to be happier too!  Interest free payment plans available.

Enjoy the video

Bye for now

Deborah

Make Yourself Happier with the Power of Your Mind

Tuesday, May 31st, 2011

Most people aspire to achieving happiness in their lives, but how do you get it?

We often say, when I get that job, car, partner, raise, house….then I’ll be happy…….

What actually causes us to be happy?  And what happens if you wait too long to find it?

Happiness and contentment comes when you fulfil your most important values for life.

Your values are those unconscious things that are most important to you. Let’s say for example, a loving relationship, family harmony and great friends are your three most important values. You will achieve an incredible sense of contentment and happiness in your life when you have fulfilled those values.

How do you know what your values are and whether or not they are appropriate values?

If you don’t understand your own values, how do you know if your efforts in life are carrying you towards happiness or away from it?

You can also be in control of your own feeling of happiness.  Why not watch the video on this blog and experience one of the easiest NLP techniques, that you can do right now, to increase your level of happiness.

If you want to find out more about this and many other amazing facts about your mind that can help you live a more fulfilling and happy life then why not join us on 20-26 June 2011 at our NLP Practitioner Training.  Interest free payment plans available.

Enjoy the video

Bye for now

Deborah

Easy Weight Loss with NLP & Hypnosis

Tuesday, May 31st, 2011

How weird is the human mind?

If you are dieting for example and cut out chocolate you feel more compelled to eat it than before.

The reason for that is that you can’t NOT think about something. If you try and NOT think about something you ending up thinking about it.

Don’t think of a….. Green Tree Frog!

What did you just think about? I know… you thought of a Green tree frog, we all do, even for a split second then you might have forced yourself to think of something else.

If you try to avoid certain foods your mind will compel you even more than usual to consume them.

Easy Weight Loss

I love my food and generally have fairly poor will power. Without using some clever techniques I would fail at a diet. For 6 weeks I had to go on an eating plan avoiding sugar, caffeine, alcohol, meat, dairy, and anything processed.  I know – very unfair!

People that know me said I would never do it, but I did and here is how.

Instead of focusing on all the foods I couldn’t have and becoming compulsed to eat more of them, I chose to focus on what I could eat.

I bought all the foods, meals, snacks I liked that were allowed on the plan. I cleared out a kitchen cupboard and a shelf of the fridge and put my foods there. Whenever I got hungry I only went to ‘my’ cupboard. I never even saw the foods I couldn’t have. I managed the 6 weeks with ease.

If you want to find out more about this and many other amazing facts about your mind that can help you live a more fulfilling and happy life then why not join us on 20 – 26 June 2011 at our NLP Practitioner Course.  With interest free payment plans available.

Bye for now,

Deborah

NLP Practitioner Training Gold Coast

Wednesday, May 25th, 2011

Get 4 certifications after only 7 days of face to face training…..

Our NLP Practitioner Course is different from most training you have attended.  It is practical and each technique is explained and demonstrated and then you are given an opportunity to put what you have learned into practice. You won’t find yourself in a room full of 100 people. We personalise our training as you are trained by Deborah Harper and Jonathan Bispham who are the owners of the company.

It’s fun and exciting as you clear out all the things that prevent you from having your life and career the way you want it.  You then learn how to use techniques to help others.

What you will learn when you come along:

  • Find out an individual’s process for communication and use it to communicate more effectively in any situation
  • Learn how your perception, attitudes and beliefs affect your life
  • Learn the secrets behind the words people use, and utilise this in your communications to get your message across.
  • Remove Anger, Fear, Sadness in yourself and others, in minutes not years
  • Learn how to find those old decisions you made that are limiting you and get rid of them
  • Learn the latest goal setting techniques, utilising all areas of the brain to make your goals much more achievable
  • Create incredible rapport with anyone quickly and easily
  • Learn how to switch on motivation in yourself, as easy as flicking a light switch
  • Change your emotional state in seconds (e.g. frustration to excitement)
  • Learn a technique to end procrastination
  • Learn how to change an emotional state in another person to a more resourceful state
  • Find out peoples’ strategies for decision making and buying in order to vastly increase your success in business
  • Learn how to improve a child’s spelling from poor to perfect in 30 minutes.
  • Stop inner conflicts in people so they can make the changes they need.
  • Learn to hypnotise people for weight loss, stop smoking or virtually any other unconscious change they want to make.
  • Learn the 5 step sales process to dramatically increase your closure rate
  • Learn how to utilise coaching in business
  • How to actually think outside the box
  • Learn a fool proof negotiation technique to create a win-win situation

You can use these skills in:

  • Business and Personal Coaching
  • Educational Coaching
  • Performance enhancement
  • Relationship Coaching
  • Organisational Change
  • Sales and Communication
  • Business Trainings

Our next NLP Practitioner training is 20th – 26th June 2011.  Special offer is even less than discounted Early Bird price!

For more information on NLP training and courses or coaching, call 1300 388875, or visit www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au

Powerful Presentation Skills

Tuesday, May 10th, 2011
  • Uncontrollable handshaking
  • Wobbly knees
  • Sweaty palms
  • Anxiety
  • Vomiting
  • Diarrhea
  • Dry mouth

Does any of this happen to you either before or during your presentations?

Why is it most people who have to do presentations would rather face a room full of hungry lions than a room full of people?

Most of us talk to people every day either in person or over a phone. So what is the big deal about doing the same thing, only on a grander scale?

I still remember my first business presentation to a group of Executives. No matter how I tried, I just couldn’t get my top lip to stop sticking to my teeth!

So why do we need to learn how to present successfully in public?

For a start, there is certainly an increased expectation for us to speak in front of others as part of our professional and social lives. In some cases it can even be career limiting if you are unable to present well in front of others.

‘Speaking in Public – A Guide for the Scared Witless’ is an e-book that provides you with the hints and tips for conducting powerful positive presentations in any situation including job interviews.

This book is aimed at those who stand up in front of a crowd or even a small group and immediately feel weak at the knees and wish that a great hole would just swallow them up!

This book will teach you how to combat anxiety, how to control your nerves and how to deliver presentations with passion.

To find out more – just click the book!

Bye for now

Deborah

The Perfect You….

Tuesday, March 8th, 2011

How nice are you to other people?

Hopefully you answered ‘pretty nice’

Now answer this question: ‘How nice are you to yourself?’

Most people if they answer that question truthfully will say that they think negative thoughts about themselves and their future throughout each day such as:

  • I’m not good enough
  • Life is hopeless
  • What’s the point?
  • I’m fat
  • I’m broke
  • I’m a failure

When you say those things to yourself, believe it or not, it affects your level of success.

Consider this:  Do you think Richard Branson, Barack Obama, Oprah, Napoleon Hill or Thomas Edison constantly said or say negative things about themselves?  No of course not.  Then why do you do it and still expect to be successful?

Try this out for a couple of weeks and see what difference it makes to your life:

Sit quietly for a few minutes each day and imagine your perfect (but realistic) future.  Be as specific as you like and see your future working out step by step with no room for any kind of doubt or insecurity.

What most people don’t realise is what you think about actually creates your reality and you attract that which you think about.  So it makes sense if you are thinking negatively about yourself and your future then you will attract more of that.

This is just one of the many NLP training techniques that help you to be the most successful you can be.

You deserve the best – so start changing your mind!

Bye for now

Deborah

Are you serious about weight loss?

Tuesday, March 1st, 2011

Want to lose weight this year? Here is a task I give to my clients…

  1. Do a 14 day food journal. The purpose of this is to record everything you put in your mouth (including gum & drinks) and what emotion you were feeling at the time.
  2. Each day make a note of what you ate or drank, the time and what you were thinking/feeling and doing at the time.
  3. Do it each day – each time you put something in your mouth – don’t wait until the end of the day as this is too late.
  4. After 14 days you will see a link between your eating patterns and your negative feelings/emotions.
  5. Now you have a starting point to be able to really address what is behind the weight issue.

Try it for 14 days – don’t cheat as this is unfair to you.

A good NLP and Time Line Therapy™ Practitioner can help you let go of the negative emotions and also teach you a technique that turns a type of food that you really love (but isn’t good for you) into something you really hate – so you won’t eat it anymore such as chocolate, potato chips etc.

Then focus on all the healthy foods you can eat.  Combine with a healthy exercise program (making sure you get clearance from your doctor) and you are on your way to a healthy weight and lifestyle.

Bye for now

Deborah

Adelaide Govt says ‘YES’ to NLP & Hypnosis Training!

Tuesday, March 1st, 2011

No longer do you have to travel to Sydney or Melbourne to learn the greatest set of skills for human change, excellence and empowerment.

For years Adelaide residents weren’t able to get accreditation in Hypnosis, which is included in all good Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) training courses.  State government legislation prevented Adelaide people, who wanted to improve their skills and really help others, from being given access to Hypnosis accreditation as part of NLP training.

Now for the great news!NLP Graduates

The legislation has been changed and Adelaide residents can train to be an NLP Practitioner and a Hypnotherapist all in the one 7-day NLP training.

So what is all the fuss about and why are we so excited?

For a start there is so much heartbreak and misery all around us.  People are suffering from the economic situation, natural disasters such as floods and cyclones and everyday issues that cause hurt and pain.

People who are trained in Hypnosis, Time Line Therapy® and Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) are now in high demand.

Why?

NLP training courses, that include Hypnosis and Time Line Therapy® as part of the curriculum, teach you how to control your thoughts so you produce excellent behaviour, which in turn enables you to be successful in any area of life.

To become master of your own world you need to be able to let go of anger, sadness, fear and guilt from your life and program your mind to achieve excellence.  Attending an NLP training course not only teaches you how to do this for yourself but also how to help others to achieve more in their lives.

The more negative thoughts you have (and try not to have) the more damage you may be doing to your life, both internally and externally.  It can affect your health and your ability to move forward.

It is vital to find an Adelaide NLP course that is internationally recognised so you know you are getting value for money.  If they offer a money back guarantee then you can’t really go wrong as they are willing to put their money behind their promise to ensure you receive the most excellent training possible.

So why not learn how to let go of negative thoughts, emotions, beliefs and doubts that prevent you from having your life the way you want it. Learning NLP Practitioner skills is a simple and effective way to overcome obstacles so you can have your life the way you want it.

You know those people who seem to be so lucky in life that everything they touch turns to gold?  NLP is the study of success and excellence in human behaviour.  We show you how to find excellence, model it and install it so you can be just as successful too.

In 7 days we show you how to get rid of all those issues holding you back.  Plus you leave with 4 certifications and you can start earning money on day 8!  Check us out on YouTube

In the words of Wayne Dyer, “Go for it now. The future is promised to no-one”

Bye for now

Deborah

Life Changing Solutions

How To Be Happy Everyday

Wednesday, February 9th, 2011

I know you are thinking – how is that possible?

I promise you it is and here is how to do it using a quick process called NLP Anchoring….

  1. Take a moment and sit somewhere quietly
  2. Think of a time when you were the most happiest – a specific time
  3. Now imagine experiencing that time as if it were right now
  4. Remember everything you saw, felt and heard
  5. Now when you really feel those feelings, squeeze your left fist
  6. Then open your eyes
  7. Repeat steps 2 – 6 about 4 or 5 times
  8. To test – fire your anchor – squeeze your left fist and you should feel those happy feelings

You could also think of a ‘special word’ that reminds you of that event instead of squeezing your fist.  Once you have repeated steps 2-6, when you  think of the ‘special word’ you will feel those positive feelings.

NLP Anchoring is basically linking a positive state to a picture, word or a physical place on the body.  The state and the picture/word or physical place gets linked in your brain so you feel the same feelings when you fire the anchor as in step 8.  You can use any states such as motivation, confidence, energetic to name a few.  This is also great for kids!

This isn’t magic or anything new.  Marketing teams worldwide use anchors to get you into a positive state where you want the product no matter what.  Just notice what happens when a child sees the ‘Golden Arches’ of McDonalds.  Instantly they are hungry and that is a very clever visual anchor….

Give it a go – it works and it only takes a couple of minutes.

Bye for now

Deborah

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FREE NLP COURSE

Thursday, July 22nd, 2010

I’ve been off the radar a bit lately designing the updated version of the Life Changing Solutions website. I am so excited with the new look and feel of our updated website!

I want to offer you some FREE GIFTS that will help you to start designing your life the way you want it.  I strongly believe that everyone has a right to control his or her own life.  It’s a bit like you are ‘driving your own bus’ down this road we call life.  A lot of times other people try to drive our bus or constantly tell us what we are doing wrong or where we should be headed.  And if we continue listening to everyone else instead of ourselves, we start to feel resentment towards life.  So our intention here at Life Changing Solutions is to help you get back to ‘driving your own bus’ and let go of all that ‘stuff’ that gets in your way of being successful in whatever you do.

So back to the free stuff…..We have two gifts with a total value of $89.95 that we would love you to enjoy with our compliments.

‘Change Your Mind – Change Your Results’ is an on-line personal development course and an intro to NLP.  It helps you focus on success and start achieving results in your life.  You receive this course as a gift from us when you go to www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au and click on the ‘Free Gifts’ button.

‘Energy Booster’ is a self hypnosis recording that you can download and listen to that helps you to increase your energy levels.  We have had incredible feedback from clients who have been using this.

To receive your free gifts all you need to do is to go to http://www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au and click on the ‘Free Gifts’ button.  We will send you the Energy Booster recording and the first week of the course.  Each week we will send you the next part of the course, absolutely free!

Please enjoy the results!

Bye for now

Deborah

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