Posts Tagged ‘Design Your Future’

Why Some People Explode to Success …..

Tuesday, March 30th, 2010

People ask me regularly how they can achieve better results in their life.  There is always more to do and it seems like less time to do it, less money to do it with and less energy available when you need it.  My take on achieving better results is this.  If you hold on to al the ‘old stuff’ in your life, how on earth can you pick up new things like new ideas, opportunities or tasks.  We each hold onto past beliefs that limit us, past emotions that limit us and doubts that limit us.  Why not come and learn how to let go of all that so you can start fresh and focus on improving results in your life?

‘Design Your Future’ seminars will teach you how to use your mind to remove the obstacles that prevent you from achieving what you want.  People who attend these seminars have incredible results. Here’s what previous participants had to say about the seminar: “I have unlocked a new future. I knew it would be good but nothing could have prepared me for this!!! I am excited about tomorrow….. The seminar has had a profound impact on my thinking power and I know that I am in control of my own life again. You have truly given me a gift. …Thank you I feel free again. Thank you. Thank you..” Angela – Brisbane

“For years I have felt that I am being held back from what it really is I want. I had no idea what was holding me back. In 2 days I have had those reigns taken off – released. I am so looking forward to my future. Thank you.” Marslie – Brisbane

“Deciding to bring my children along was a big decision. I thought if they could just take one good thing each out of both days then it would be well worth it. The children [12 & 16 years] have learnt and I know already they will benefit from this course in many ways. I was surprised at how much they enjoyed their time. They are already correcting me!!” Many thanks Jill – Gold Coast.

We offer a FULL MONEY BACK GUARANTEE. If you are not entirely happy after day one, we will refund the full cost of the course. *** SPECIAL EASTER PRICE ***

What you will learn when you attend:

• How to overcome anxiety in 60 seconds or less    • Get rid of fear and learn how to prevent holding onto fear in the future    • The comfort zone and how to avoid burnout   • How your mind processes experiences. What are you missing out on?   • Release anger on all past events easily and test to make sure it’s gone!    • Mind-Body connection- how you can prevent dis-ease in your body   • Learn about your values and how they affect everything you do    • Learn how things that motivate you can end up de-motivating you    • Discover the root cause of any problem    • Learn how to improve your life & your results    • See what’s in your future – you’ll have to attend to find out more    • Goals – why you don’t always achieve your goals – the best techniques in goal setting get even more powerful with Time Line TherapyTM    • Find out the decisions you made in the past that prevent you from achieving what you want.

Full price $670.00. SPECIAL EASTER PRICE $395.00! Discounts apply for additional tickets.

Ring NOW on 1300 388875 to secure your EASTER DISCOUNT seat Go to www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au/workshops and view the video where we elaborate on the Design Your Future Workshop

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Divorce & NLP – how it CAN help

Thursday, March 4th, 2010

7 months ago my marriage of 16 years ended which, for those of you out there who have experienced this, is pretty devastating to say the least. When something you have known for 16 years ends and everything changes, how do you move forward? What happens to your self esteem, self confidence and self worth? How quickly life changes after a big decision like that…..

I’ve been thinking about sharing with my readers for a while now the techniques I use to keep moving forward and focusing on what I want. This is what helped me….

1. Confidence is an emotional feeling and we are in control of our feelings. All too often we let others tell us how to feel, how to act and what to say and do. You can control your state from moment to moment. If you haven’t read my blog on ‘Circle of Excellence’ then log onto my website and see my previous blog on how to control your state. Then take action and follow the steps outlined in the blog.  You will be feeling more confident in no time!

2. There are two sides to the life equation – cause side and the effect side. People on the effect side blame everything and everyone else for not having their life as they would like it. Those on the cause side ask themselves, how have I contributed to this and what can I do to change my reaction to it even if I can’t change the outcome? Being on the cause side means that you are in control and can change any feeling or behaviour you want. I absolutely know what role I played in the demise of my marriage and I now have some significant learning stored away that enables me to feel a sense of power again in my own life. Check out my blog on ‘Cause and Effect’ then put it into practice. Even if you just ‘pretend’ you are at cause as if it is only a game – it will still work!

3. Clean out your negative emotions! I assume you all clean your house or your car from time to time so what about your own mind? The thoughts you hold in your mind affect your body. Just think about something you are angry about and notice the feelings you get inside your body!  This isn’t healthy and takes you away from what it is you really want. Check out my blog on ‘The Secret to Feeling Fabulous Everyday’ then give me a call. I work with international clients over Skype.

Of course there are many other techniques that I use to keep me feeling that I am worth it and I do deserve to be happy and whole. I’m so excited about my future because now I can help other people, both men and women, to regain their spirit and their power after divorce.

So is there light at the end of the tunnel after divorce?

There is not only a light – there is a shining light, lighting up the future you deserve.

If your relationship needs some attention, call 1300 388875 or go to www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au

Bye for now….

Deborah

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NLP & 2010 – what’s really ahead?

Wednesday, January 6th, 2010

So it is a fresh new year and for some a fresh new start.  A time to say ‘goodbye’ to the old ways of 2009 and to create a new you in 2010.  As I sit here on my computer (not literally of course), I’m wondering how many of you actually ‘clear’ out all the emotional baggage from the previous year.  You know, all those things that hold you back from having your life exactly the way you want it.  Such as, negative emotions, doubts about your abilities, lack of self confidence, fears, bad habits etc. 

How many of you carry that emotional baggage with you year in and year out?  Pushing issues that you don’t want to deal with to the back of your mind, only to find them reappear at the most inappropriate moments.  Then you start a new year with the best of intentions and set resolutions for the year ahead, only to feel bitterly disappointed when you don’t achieve them.

Why not let go of that emotional baggage once and for all?

Imagine if you were travelling with a suitcase full of stuff and issues you don’t want.  It is heavy, it wears you down and prevents you from moving as fast as you would like.  It prevents you from doing all the fun and exciting activities you really want to do because you are carrying this bulky suitcase with you.  Would you continue on your journey like this?  No of course you wouldn’t.  You would soon find a way to chuck out all the stuff you don’t want and probably buy a backpack and only carry those things that you really need and want.

So what’s the difference?

When you think about it logically – there is little difference.  Just like off loading contents from a suitcase you don’t need, you can easily let go of emotional issues that have been holding you back.  How?

  1. Book a personal one on one coaching session that can be done either in person, over the phone or via Skype, or
  2. Attend a ‘Design Your Future’ workshop and learn the techniques to let go of the issues once and for all.  You don’t need to share any information with anyone else at the workshops and you work through your own issues in confidence.  Our next course is held March 20-21 on the Gold Coast, Queensland, Australia.  For more info visit: http://www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au/workshops.html Early Bird tickets are still available but you need to act quickly.

Ask yourself, how much longer do you need to carry around that emotional baggage?  Or is it now time to let it go and create a 2010 that works for you in all areas of life.

A quick visit to the above website or a call to 1300 388875 is all it takes.

Bye for now….

Deborah

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The Secret to Feeling Fabulous Everyday

Tuesday, January 5th, 2010

Is it really possible to feel fabulous everyday?  Absolutely! 

So what is it I do exactly?

Well big picture – imagine you wanted a new bathroom, what’s the first thing you would do?  That’s right – you would take out all the old fittings.  Well that is what I do – I help you to resolve all those horrible past issues and emotions quickly and easily, so you can reach your true potential and live a fabulous life.

I regularly see people who suffer from anxiety, depression, post traumatic stress disorder, obsessive compulsive disorders, anger management, stress management, phobias and children with ADHD.  In fact there are so many different issues that these techniques can help.

After you explain your problem either in person or over the phone, I ask a series of specific questions to discover the core underlying issues.  I then teach you the techniques to release those issues. We then test and make sure the problem’s gone.

There is now a lot of research in the area of psycho-neuro-immunology, which demonstrates that holding on to negative emotions adversely affects your health.  When people realise this they want to let go old emotional baggage now and start living again.

This is a very fast process, for example, a phobia normally takes less than an hour.  Anger management issues can take between one to two hours.  A personal break-through session covering all aspects of life can take 8 to 10 hours.  So it is really quick and the changes are amazing.

I’m a Master Practitioner and Trainer of Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), Time Line Therapy™, Coaching and Hypnosis.  I teach people how to let go of their old emotional baggage and remove obstacles so they feel good about themselves and achieve exactly what they want.

Ring me now on 1300 388875 or visit www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au  for more information.

Bye for now….

Deborah

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NLP Couples Therapy

Monday, September 7th, 2009

When people ask me about using NLP for couples therapy, the first thing I ask is, ‘is this relationship worth saving?’.  If it is then there are a number of NLP and Time Line™ Therapy techniques that can help couples reconnect their love strategy, relationship values and begin communicating in a resourceful and loving way.

What if the answer however is ‘No, this relationship isn’t worth saving!” ?

You know being honest with yourself about what you want out of a relationship is the first step towards having the relationship you really want and need.  All too often I hear about people who stay in unresourceful or unhappy relationships because the perceived pain of leaving is too much to contemplate.   The question I’d like to ask is this….  When did it become okay for us to remain in a relationship where our needs are not being met?  How often do you hear of older couples wishing they had the guts to leave the relationship and spend their remaining years in a passionate and exciting relationship?

Regardless of whether you stay and make it work or leave and make it work, NLP techniques can help you make the transition easier emotionally.

The first thing you need to do is be clear about what it is you want in a relationship.  You probably already know what you don’t want – so stop focusing on that and focus on what you do want.  Once you have that list of wants and needs – look at your current relationship and decide together if the relationship is worth saving and if each partner can meet the other’s needs. If the answer is no, then you can support each other in the decision and move towards what you do want in an amicable way.

For more information on NLP Couples Therapy, contact Deborah on 1300 388875 or go to www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au

Bye for now…

Deborah

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‘Past Events’ – A different Perspective

Wednesday, April 22nd, 2009

Imagine what it would be like if you could see past events from a different perspective, learn something new and let go of any emotions that you don’t like or don’t help you. Wouldn’t it be of value to learn how to do this easily and as often as you needed to?
I regularly coach and teach people how to reduce or let go of an unwanted negative emotion experienced when they think of a past minor event or memory.
When pictures of past events or experiences are strongly linked with negative emotions such as frustration, annoyance and disappointment, we often protect ourselves from re-experiencing them, which prevents us learning from those experiences.
There is a really easy technique that you can use to separate the images of the experience from the feelings about the experience, so that you can easily learn from the event and move towards what you want. It is called the V/K Technique and is so simple to do.
First I’d like you to think of a minor event that bothers you. Maybe something that made you a little annoyed, frustrated or uneasy.
See the event through your own eyes and notice the emotion. If you can’t feel the emotion it probably doesn’t bother you anymore, so pick another event.
Now ‘imagine’ floating up above your body and seeing the event as if you were looking down on yourself, way down there. Make sure you can see yourself in the picture. If you are imagining yourself ‘looking down’ on the scene below, you won’t be able to feel the emotion. That’s a great start.
Now run the scene back on forth until you learn something new or something not previously remembered from this perspective. What are you seeing now that you didn’t see before?
Notice that the emotion has gone or at least lessened.
How can you incorporate this in your everyday life? Use it over the next week on minor events that bother you. It’s a great technique – I love it.
Have a look at www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au/workshops for more information on how the Design Your Future weekend seminar can teach you how to improve your business, personal lives, health and relationships.
Bye for now
Deb

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