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Make Yourself Happier with the Power of Your Mind

Tuesday, May 31st, 2011

Most people aspire to achieving happiness in their lives, but how do you get it?

We often say, when I get that job, car, partner, raise, house….then I’ll be happy…….

What actually causes us to be happy?  And what happens if you wait too long to find it?

Happiness and contentment comes when you fulfil your most important values for life.

Your values are those unconscious things that are most important to you. Let’s say for example, a loving relationship, family harmony and great friends are your three most important values. You will achieve an incredible sense of contentment and happiness in your life when you have fulfilled those values.

How do you know what your values are and whether or not they are appropriate values?

If you don’t understand your own values, how do you know if your efforts in life are carrying you towards happiness or away from it?

You can also be in control of your own feeling of happiness.  Why not watch the video on this blog and experience one of the easiest NLP techniques, that you can do right now, to increase your level of happiness.

If you want to find out more about this and many other amazing facts about your mind that can help you live a more fulfilling and happy life then why not join us on 20-26 June 2011 at our NLP Practitioner Training.  Interest free payment plans available.

Enjoy the video

Bye for now

Deborah

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NLP Practitioner Training – Brisbane

Tuesday, March 8th, 2011

Picture a career, doing what you love to do versus what you need to do.

Imagine breaking out from your fears, phobias, anxiety and negative habits.

How would you feel being able to help others to take better control of their lives?

NLP Graduates

Get 4 Certifications after 7 days training

(pre-study required)

1. NLP Practitioner Certification

2. NLP Coaching Certification

3. Time Line Therapy® Practitioner Certification

4. Certification as a Hypnotist

This Brisbane NLP Practitioner course is different from most training you have attended.  It is a very hands-on intensive training.  Each technique is explained and demonstrated and then you are given an opportunity to put what you have learned into practice.

It’s fun and exciting as you clear out all the things that prevent you from having your life and career the way you want it.  You then learn how to use techniques to help others.

What you will learn when you come along:

  • Find out an individual’s process for communication and use it to communicate more effectively in any situation
  • Learn how your perception, attitudes and beliefs affect your life
  • Learn the secrets behind the words people use, and utilise this in your communications to get your message across.
  • Remove Anger, Fear, Sadness in yourself and others, in minutes not years
  • Learn how to find those old decisions you made that are limiting you and get rid of them
  • Learn the latest goal setting techniques, utilising all areas of the brain to make your goals much more achievable
  • Create incredible rapport with anyone quickly and easily
  • Learn how to switch on motivation in yourself, as easy as flicking a light switch
  • Change your emotional state in seconds (e.g. frustration to excitement)
  • Learn a technique to end procrastination
  • Learn how to change an emotional state in another person to a more resourceful state
  • Find out peoples’ strategies for decision making and buying in order to vastly increase your success in business
  • Learn how to improve a child’s spelling from poor to perfect in 30 minutes.
  • Stop inner conflicts in people so they can make the changes they need.
  • Learn to hypnotise people for weight loss, stop smoking or virtually any other unconscious change they want to make.
  • Learn the 5 step sales process to dramatically increase your closure rate
  • Learn how to utilise coaching in business
  • How to actually think outside the box
  • Learn a fool proof negotiation technique to create a win-win situation

You can use these skills in:

  • Business and Personal Coaching
  • Educational Coaching
  • Performance enhancement
  • Relationship Coaching
  • Organisational Change
  • Sales and Communication
  • Business Trainings

23 – 29 May 2011 – Brisbane NLP Training Course.

Early Bird Tickets still available, call Deborah Harper now on 1300 388875, or visitwww.lifechangingsolutions.com.au

Bye for now

Deborah

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Are You a Great Manager?

Tuesday, December 14th, 2010

“I have missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I have lost almost 300 games. On 26 occasions, I have been entrusted to take the game-winning shot and I missed. I have failed over and over again in my life (business). And that’s precisely why I succeed.” Michael Jordan

Have you ever wondered what makes the most successful leaders in the world so successful?  Is it their beliefs, their values, their thought patterns and their actions?

Well the answer is yes, yes, yes and yes!

What’s interesting is their actions form only part of their successful leadership strategy.  Each successful leader or manager has a process they do inside their head, unconsciously that enables them to think, act and behave like a great Manager.

There are many Management Development Programs in Queensland and all over Australia but how do you know which one is right for you to be able to learn the skills that enable you to be a great Manager?

What many Managers don’t know is that within each of their staff is a level of thinking or a ‘way’ of thinking that produces certain results.  Managing using one leadership style may work for some team members but not others.  The Managers I have worked with have expressed their absolute frustration about the complexities of managing the many different personalities in the workplace.

Here’s the great part.  All great Managers need to be able to do is to work out their teams’ thinking patterns and how each staff member processes information both internally and externally.

Sounds complicated?  Well it isn’t….

This is where Management Development Programs can fall short on delivery.  They focus so much on leadership styles instead of focusing on how to find out how staff are programmed, what their belief systems are and how to identify their blocks to producing high levels of productivity.

Imagine having that edge over your competitors that allows you to do less and achieve more.  Picture communicating much more effectively with staff and customers and feeling like you are a great leader for your team. Suppose you increase your sales and reduce your costs and have more effective and happier staff.

That would be useful wouldn’t it?

Well that is possible when you learn how to model excellent behaviour, strategies and beliefs and install it in yourself.

Our Management Development Programs in Queensland, Sydney and Melbourne teach you how to think, act and behave like a great manager.  The Management Development Program provides you with a simple tool that enables you to find out how your staff think and how they best need to be managed.  This enables you to lead them to be more productive, to be happier and more content in the workplace and to stay on board longer.

The focus of our Management Development Program is how we show you how to discover what makes the difference between good and great results.

The question is this, are you happy being a good manager or do you want to be a great manager? Visit http://www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au to find out more.

Bye for now

Deborah

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NLP Practitioner Gold Coast Course

Tuesday, April 20th, 2010

14 –  20 March 2011 – Gold Coast Accelerated NLP Practitioner Course

Picture a career, doing what you love to do versus what you need to do.

Imagine breaking out from your fears, phobias, anxiety and negative habits.

How would you feel being able to help others to take better control of their lives?NLP Graduates

Get 4 Certifications after 7 days training

(pre-study required)

1. NLP Practitioner Certification

2. NLP Coaching Certification

3. Time Line Therapy® Practitioner Certification

4. Certification as a Hypnotist

This NLP Practitioner Course is different from most training you have attended.  It is a very hands-on intensive training.  Each technique is explained and demonstrated and then you are given an opportunity to put what you have learned into practice.

It’s fun and exciting as you clear out all the things that prevent you from having your life and career the way you want it.  You then learn how to use techniques to help others.

What you will learn when you come along:

  • Find out an individual’s process for communication and use it to communicate more effectively in any situation
  • Learn how your perception, attitudes and beliefs affect your life
  • Learn the secrets behind the words people use, and utilise this in your communications to get your message across.
  • Remove Anger, Fear, Sadness in yourself and others, in minutes not years
  • Learn how to find those old decisions you made that are limiting you and get rid of them
  • Learn the latest goal setting techniques, utilising all areas of the brain to make your goals much more achievable
  • Create incredible rapport with anyone quickly and easily
  • Learn how to switch on motivation in yourself, as easy as flicking a light switch
  • Change your emotional state in seconds (e.g. frustration to excitement)
  • Learn a technique to end procrastination
  • Learn how to change an emotional state in another person to a more resourceful state
  • Find out peoples’ strategies for decision making and buying in order to vastly increase your success in business
  • Learn how to improve a child’s spelling from poor to perfect in 30 minutes.
  • Stop inner conflicts in people so they can make the changes they need.
  • Learn to hypnotise people for weight loss, stop smoking or virtually any other unconscious change they want to make.
  • Learn the 5 step sales process to dramatically increase your closure rate
  • Learn how to utilise coaching in business
  • How to actually think outside the box
  • Learn a fool proof negotiation technique to create a win-win situation

You can use these skills in:

  • Business and Personal Coaching
  • Educational Coaching
  • Performance enhancement
  • Relationship Coaching
  • Organisational Change
  • Sales and Communication
  • Business Trainings

Early Bird Tickets still available, call Deborah Harper now on 1300 388875, or visit www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au

Bye for now

Deborah

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Hypnosis Gold Coast Style!

Tuesday, April 20th, 2010

What does Hypnosis feel like?

What does it feel like when you are falling asleep?  What does it feel like when you allow your mind to wander and daydream? Well that’s what it feels like in hypnosis. It’s a nice physical and mental feeling of total relaxation. There are different levels of hypnosis. Light hypnosis feels very much like your normal waking state, as you go deeper you feel more relaxed. I guess the worst part is having to come out of it!

What Is Hypnosis?

Hypnosis is a naturally occurring state also known as a ‘trance’ like state.  Everyone enters that state many times per day. 

Have you ever been driving somewhere and you can’t remember the road you just travelled on?

Well you were in a light state of trance…

Have you ever read a paragraph of a book and then had to re-read it because you zoned out?

You were in a light state of trance then too…

What about at a meeting?  Have you ever taken on that glazed looked and zoned out?

Of course you have and you were in a light state of trance …

It is a state where the critical/judging part of your conscious mind is by-passed, to some degree, and because of this, suggestions given at this time are more likely to ‘stick’ in your mind and take effect.

We spend most of our waking hours in full conscious awareness.  In this state, our mind is attentive and uses logic to reason, evaluate, assess, judge, and make decisions.  Unfortunately, when making life changes, such as breaking bad habits or changing negative thoughts, the conscious mind often gets in the way.

In the Hypnotic State, the doorway between the conscious and the unconscious is opened, memories become easily accessible, and new information is stored.  In the Hypnotic State, you are not really “thinking” in the traditional sense.  You are “experiencing” without questioning, without critical judgment or analysis, like when you watch a movie, or when you are day dreaming.

In this state a hypnotherapist can make suggestions that are very likely to “stick” – precisely because your conscious mind is not getting in the way.  You are not “judging” or being “critical” of the suggestions.

Can everyone be hypnotised?

Only those who choose to be and those who have enough mental capacity to follow directions, can be hypnotised.

Although we all spend time each day in that state we call hypnosis, in order to be hypnotised by someone you must want to go into hypnosis and follow the hypnotist’s direction to the letter

You are in control. You can choose to let yourself relax or not.  There is no hypnotist on the planet who can hypnotise you against your will.

What if the hypnotist makes me do something I don’t want to do?

Some people have a concern that someone is going to put suggestions into their head that they don’t want? Or make you dance around like a ‘chicken’.  Remember your conscious mind is by-passed to some degree, but not totally, you are always aware at some level of what is being said and YOU CHOOSE to accept it or not. 

Some people have a slight fear of the hypnosis or of the ‘unknown’. But really it’s not unknown. We go into that state when we fall asleep, when we awaken, or when we are focused on one task, like driving or reading a book. 

What Can Hypnosis Be Used For?

Hypnosis is used for many things. Here are some of the more common things:

  • Anxiety
  • Bed Wetting
  • Confidence
  • Insomnia
  • Libido
  • Pain Control
  • Phobias
  • Relaxation
  • Self Esteem
  • Sports Performance
  • Stop Smoking
  • Weight Loss

 For more information on seminars, courses and coaching, call 1300 388875, or visit www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au

Bye for now….

Deborah

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Divorce & NLP – how it CAN help

Thursday, March 4th, 2010

7 months ago my marriage of 16 years ended which, for those of you out there who have experienced this, is pretty devastating to say the least. When something you have known for 16 years ends and everything changes, how do you move forward? What happens to your self esteem, self confidence and self worth? How quickly life changes after a big decision like that…..

I’ve been thinking about sharing with my readers for a while now the techniques I use to keep moving forward and focusing on what I want. This is what helped me….

1. Confidence is an emotional feeling and we are in control of our feelings. All too often we let others tell us how to feel, how to act and what to say and do. You can control your state from moment to moment. If you haven’t read my blog on ‘Circle of Excellence’ then log onto my website and see my previous blog on how to control your state. Then take action and follow the steps outlined in the blog.  You will be feeling more confident in no time!

2. There are two sides to the life equation – cause side and the effect side. People on the effect side blame everything and everyone else for not having their life as they would like it. Those on the cause side ask themselves, how have I contributed to this and what can I do to change my reaction to it even if I can’t change the outcome? Being on the cause side means that you are in control and can change any feeling or behaviour you want. I absolutely know what role I played in the demise of my marriage and I now have some significant learning stored away that enables me to feel a sense of power again in my own life. Check out my blog on ‘Cause and Effect’ then put it into practice. Even if you just ‘pretend’ you are at cause as if it is only a game – it will still work!

3. Clean out your negative emotions! I assume you all clean your house or your car from time to time so what about your own mind? The thoughts you hold in your mind affect your body. Just think about something you are angry about and notice the feelings you get inside your body!  This isn’t healthy and takes you away from what it is you really want. Check out my blog on ‘The Secret to Feeling Fabulous Everyday’ then give me a call. I work with international clients over Skype.

Of course there are many other techniques that I use to keep me feeling that I am worth it and I do deserve to be happy and whole. I’m so excited about my future because now I can help other people, both men and women, to regain their spirit and their power after divorce.

So is there light at the end of the tunnel after divorce?

There is not only a light – there is a shining light, lighting up the future you deserve.

If your relationship needs some attention, call 1300 388875 or go to www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au

Bye for now….

Deborah

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Give us 7 days & we’ll Give You the Secret to making 2010 Your Year!

Wednesday, January 6th, 2010

Have you ever felt that you have more to give?

Are you passionate about helping others?

Feel like you know the principles of emotional, and spiritual growth but lack some of the tools?

Change pushes us outside our comfort zone, so why do we do it? It’s all about growth and development. But we can’t grow if we don’t learn, we can’t learn if we don’t experience and we can’t experience if we don’t move forward.

Are you one of those people who push the boundaries, enjoy challenges, learn, grow and develop? It seems to some like a hard path to follow but when you look back on your life, recalling all of the challenges and obstacles you have overcome it gives you an overwhelming sense of empowerment.

“I know that I am in control of my own life again.  You have truly given me a gift”  Angela Taylor, Brisbane, Australia

There is now a ‘science of change’. Yes that’s right, personal change has been studied in detail for the last 35 years.  That science is called Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP).  NLP is the toolbox that allows you to create change in any area of your life permanently and rapidly. NLP can be applied in your daily life to create positive change in your health, your relationships as well as your business.  Not only that, we use it to assist others to work through their most difficult challenges with ease.

  • Get back your motivation & direction
  • Create positive change in your life permanently & rapidly
  • Overcome anger, anxiety, fears & phobias
  • Increase your income
  • Improve your heal & fitness & switch on healing
  • Get rid of doubts & limiting beliefs
  • Build rapport, mediate & negotiation with anyone

If you can relate to any of this, you may have what it takes to be a successful practitioner of NLP, coaching others to let go of their ‘emotional baggage’ and breakthrough the barriers that have held them back for so long.  As a practitioner of Neuro-linguistic Programming you will be able to achieve all this and more.  Attend our fun, exciting, practical NLP course on the Gold Coast.  After working through your pre-study kit and attending a seven day course you can be certified as an NLP Practitioner, NLP Coach, Time Line TherapyTM Practitioner and Hypnotherpist. Join our next course February 15 – 21, 2010 on the Gold Coast, Queensland, Australia and learn how to change the fast way.

Limited numbers so book early to receive the earlybird discount – only 5 early bird tickets left.

Visit www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au or ring me now on 1300 388875. 

Bye for now….

Deborah

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The Secret to Feeling Fabulous Everyday

Tuesday, January 5th, 2010

Is it really possible to feel fabulous everyday?  Absolutely! 

So what is it I do exactly?

Well big picture – imagine you wanted a new bathroom, what’s the first thing you would do?  That’s right – you would take out all the old fittings.  Well that is what I do – I help you to resolve all those horrible past issues and emotions quickly and easily, so you can reach your true potential and live a fabulous life.

I regularly see people who suffer from anxiety, depression, post traumatic stress disorder, obsessive compulsive disorders, anger management, stress management, phobias and children with ADHD.  In fact there are so many different issues that these techniques can help.

After you explain your problem either in person or over the phone, I ask a series of specific questions to discover the core underlying issues.  I then teach you the techniques to release those issues. We then test and make sure the problem’s gone.

There is now a lot of research in the area of psycho-neuro-immunology, which demonstrates that holding on to negative emotions adversely affects your health.  When people realise this they want to let go old emotional baggage now and start living again.

This is a very fast process, for example, a phobia normally takes less than an hour.  Anger management issues can take between one to two hours.  A personal break-through session covering all aspects of life can take 8 to 10 hours.  So it is really quick and the changes are amazing.

I’m a Master Practitioner and Trainer of Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), Time Line Therapy™, Coaching and Hypnosis.  I teach people how to let go of their old emotional baggage and remove obstacles so they feel good about themselves and achieve exactly what they want.

Ring me now on 1300 388875 or visit www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au  for more information.

Bye for now….

Deborah

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NLP Business Coaching

Thursday, August 27th, 2009

Want to make more money in your current business?  Who wouldn’t?

We all know that business is about profit and so that means you need to increase turnover and also reduce costs.  How’s that possible in today’s financial crisis?  Well you see, from an NLP perspective, we believe that in a downward economy there are people that make money and people that don’t – so what makes the difference? 

 Well it is all in how you think and how you use your mind to program what you want and then you put into action the strategies that will get you to your outcome.

That’s where we come in.  Our business is training and coaching people. We teach people to communicate more effectively with prospects, customers and staff.  We show you how to keep the staff you have and how to increase goodwill and sales.  Some of our graduates increase turnover by a massive 300% after our courses, just by applying some simple techniques.

Using NLP in your business will enhance your performance in every facet of your work. When we were in Las Vegas last month presenting, we talked to colleagues of ours who run similar NLP trainings in Canada, Mike and Kim Redman. They did a survey of their NLP graduates to find out what increase in income they experienced following their NLP Practitioner course.  Some of them weren’t even using their new skills yet. Guess what the average increase was…..

 The average was 28% !!!!.  Just STOP now and follow these 2 steps:

 Step1:  Calculate a 28% increase in income for the next year.

Step 2: Is that amount more than $4595 (Yes or No)?

Our Early Bird rate for our NLP Practitioner 7 day Training is only $3695.00.  Our last one for 2009 starts 10th September 2009 at the Gold Coast, Queensland, Australia. 

For more information on seminars, courses and coaching, call 1300 388875, or visit www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au

 Bye for now

Deborah

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NLP Reasons versus Results!

Tuesday, June 9th, 2009

When I coach people, the first thing I need to check is whether they are focused on results or giving me ‘reasons’ why they can’t have the life they really want. Now this is a little hard to swallow but if you get this message it may well be the most important step you will take to become totally empowered to get what you want out of life.
There is a ’cause and effect’ equation operating right now in your life. One side gives you ‘results’ and the other gives you ‘reasons’.  These days many people operate more from the ‘effect’ side of the equation. The effect side can also be thought of as the ‘reasons’ or ‘excuses’ side. We all have reasons why we didn’t make it in certain areas of life, career, relationships etc.
For example, you might have heard people use the following reasons:
• “I was the first child, so I had all the responsibility…”
• “I was the last child, so I was never given any responsibility…”
• “We never had enough money when I was growing up, so I missed out…”
• “My parents were rich, they spoilt me, so I never learnt the value of money..”
• “I didn’t finish school so I couldn’t get the job I wanted..”
• “I fell pregnant so I couldn’t…”

Now they are all good excuses….. or are there ever any good excuses?

You see, stuff happens in life, good and bad, people do terrible things to one another, people get ripped off, hurt, and these are legitimate reasons for not achieving. But here’s the thing, if you cling to the reasons why you didn’t achieve something in your life, you are ‘pushing’ the problem outside of yourself and you can’t do a thing about it. You can only change yourself or your reaction to something.

You can’t change your mother, your husband, your wife. Now, you can encourage them to make changes, which they may or not do, but you can’t actually change them.
The problem is when you say for example, “It’s because of HIM!!!” you are pushing the cause outside of yourself onto someone you can’t change. If you believe that the problem is outside of your control, then there is nothing that you can do about it. Excuses are great at the time but when you are 80, 90,100 years old looking back on your life, how will it feel to know that you didn’t live your life to the fullest because of HIM, HER, THEM, IT?

Now if you move the ‘cause’ side of the equation by asking – ‘what is it I’m doing or not doing that can alter my results?’- you gain better control over your outcome.
I teach empowerment and how to take back control of your life and how to get rid of all those things that have held you back so you can design the future you want. The first step is looking at this Cause and Effect equation and asking yourself:

“Which side of this equation am I on?”

Are you on the effect = reasons/excuses side or are you on the cause = results side?

For more information go to www.lifechangingsolutions.com.au

Bye for now
Deb

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